Let's be real: They're not TERFs. They're cis supremacists. Likewise, their friends aren't alt-right. They're white supremacists and patriarchs.
There's no need to use their language to refer to them. (And yes, remember that TERF was originally their word. They just started denying it after we, the people they see as inferior to them, accepted its use as a way to describe them.)
unenviable, constant zugzwang [meta:#nobot]
Kafuka.ME is a general instance that has a few 'highlight focuses':
and Emulation/Retro Computing!